Can't sleep. I didn't post any more yesterday because I was tired . . . it was a pretty long day.
We got Ken all settled in rehab at Mount Vernon. We have gotten a little used to the intensive care unit . . . I bitched about it before, but compared to regular care . . . well, let's just say we miss the ICU.
This is going to be really hard for Ken. Already, on day one, they are telling him, "No, you need to brush your own teeth" (I know it sounds silly, but brushing his teeth takes quite a lot of coordination right now)
It pisses him off they are 'forcing' him to do things for himself, but this is the ONLY way he will reprogram the brain.
It is hard to see him suffer, and it is even harder to say 'No' when he asks for something he can do himself.
I can't imagine how Bill and Helen feel . . . this is their Son . . . they want to help him, but in this instance, helping him will just hold him back.
More tomorrow . . .
(thanks to all that read this . . . I would hate to think I was typing all this in vain)
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Todd,
ReplyDeleteNeed an address so I can send Ken some cards or letters.
I figured this was gonna be hard for you both, but in the end it's what is going to make him better. Hang in there and try to keep looking to the future. He's on his way now and it's gonna be good in the end.
I love you guys and you are in my prayers.
Love Aunt Linda
I read these! every day, if I can. I think you are right to force him to do things for himself, and the sooner the better. Better for the brain not to get used to others doing things, better for the bring to regenerate those pathways that allow tasks to be done.
ReplyDeleteI know I've recommended this before, but I can't say enough how good "My stroke of insight" was. Maybe Ken would like it to be read to him? I wonder if the story of her recovery would be encouraging...? (ok, will stop recommending this book now)
I check everyday too. I wonder if he ever got the split for the correct hand and so on. This is Andrea, I used to work w/Ken at Lion Recording. I'll bet Carly & Yodie (sp?) miss him!
ReplyDeleteLinda: I'll get you our address, but Ken can't read yet and cards kind of upset him.
ReplyDeleteLisa: I am going to look for that book. The new Dan Brown is a sleeper! :)
Andrea: Hi! We got your card, and it is on his side table at the hospital. I open and read them to him if they come in the mail when he is feeling up to it, but it tends to upset him because I think he wants to read them himself. But we have it and thanks very much!
Todd,
ReplyDeleteI don't want to do anything to upset Ken, so I'll hold off on cards or letters for now. Just please let him know that he's in my thoughts and prayers and I love you both.
Thanks.
Aunt Linda
Ya know, I think after this evening, I will retract my previous comment. He has come to terms with not being able to read, and really seemed to enjoy having them read to him. I think he would really enjoy a card/letter from you.
ReplyDeleteI've communicated to him the number of positive wishes and prayers that have come from you and Amy as well, and believe me, he is truly touched. Honestly, every comment and thought that you pass on to me is communicated to him, and it is VERY MUCH appreciated!
Love always,
Todd
Oh, I forgot the address! :)
ReplyDeleteKen Hauser
2610 Farmington Drive
Alexandria, VA 22303
The Nieces and Nephews are doing some art, so drawings are also encouraged!